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Saturday, October 20, 2007
Subject - Dating
Dating is any social activity performed as a pair or even a group with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as their partner in a intimate relationship or as a spouse. The word refers to the act of agreeing on a time and "date" when a pair can meet and engage in some social activity.
In many cultural traditions, dates are arranged by a third party, who may be a family member, an acquaintance, or a dedicated matchmaker. Recently matchmaking services have become popular. Although dating rules in Western popular culture have become more relaxed during the 20th century, there is considerable variation between individuals' values. For example, when the activity costs money, it has traditionally been the man's role to pay; in recent times the practice of "going Dutch" (splitting the expenses) has emerged. Traditional dating activities include sharing entertainment or a meal. In general, a person may date many different partners during the same time period in order to have the best chance of finding their most suitable available mate.
Contents [hide]
1 Types of dates
2 Systems for organizing dates
3 Teenage dating
4 Dating problems and misunderstandings
5 Biblical courtship
6 References
7 External Links
Types of dates
Double date: two couples meet for an activity.
Group date: an activity shared by two or more couples.
Blind date: a date where the participants have not met each other personally before (although may have seen each other's pictures); usually set up by a third party or an internet dating service.
Long Distance / Holidating: Due to a long distance relationship, dating only when one, or both parties are on holiday or vacation and are together during that time period.
Systems for organizing dates
Online dating: Instead of using a traditional matchmaker, online dating uses specifically targeted websites to meet new people.
Speed dating: Where a group of people get together for several hours in a public place to get to know one another better. At one of these speed dating events, each person usually sits with another single member for a set period of time to get to know them better, and then at the predetermined time is asked to move and sit with someone else to repeat the process.
Mobile dating/cell phone dating: Where text messages to and from a mobile/cell phone carrier are used to show interest in others on the system. Can be web-based or online dating as well depending on the company.
Virtual dating: A combination of video game playing and dating, where users create avatars and spend time in virtual worlds in an attempt to meet other avatars with the purpose of meeting for potential dates.
Teenage dating
Although some teens start dating earlier than others, it is normal for teens to be interested in dating at an early stage of their life. Most teenagers do not know how to date and this early stage dating cycle is their opportunity to learn. In many cases, parents talk and prepare their children about dating. Although teens need privacy, it is important to let them know that they should feel comfortable to seek parental advice.
Dating problems and misunderstandings
When individuals use the framework of dating for purposes other than assessing their date's suitability for them, misunderstandings can arise. One or both partners may initiate or accept dating invitations due to peer pressure, attention, a desire to escape from a social environment which they find stifling, a desire for acceptance, or a desire to humiliate; these motives can be strong enough to cause the person to deceive themselves and others when challenged, claiming and believing that they are mainly acting in good faith. This can lead to being "stood up".
Biblical courtship
Main article: Biblical courtship
Biblical courtship is a system practiced by a minority of Christian families, mainly in the USA, where dates are chaperoned and the dating relationship is exclusive and may be vetoed by either of the courting parties or by any of their parents. Once the male declares his feelings to the father and an approval is reached, the male and the female can begin the process of getting to know each other on their chaperoned dates. The purpose of the system is encourage lasting marriages. Despite its name, there are varying opinions as to the degree that this practice either reflects biblical practices or complies with biblical doctrines, or even the extent to which it constitutes "courtship".
References
Glencoe/McGraw-Hill. (2000). Whitney, DeBruyne, Sizer-Webb, Health: Making Life Choices (pp. 499-500)
Capstone Press. (2000). Havelin, Kate., Dating: What Is a Healthy Relationship?
In many cultural traditions, dates are arranged by a third party, who may be a family member, an acquaintance, or a dedicated matchmaker. Recently matchmaking services have become popular. Although dating rules in Western popular culture have become more relaxed during the 20th century, there is considerable variation between individuals' values. For example, when the activity costs money, it has traditionally been the man's role to pay; in recent times the practice of "going Dutch" (splitting the expenses) has emerged. Traditional dating activities include sharing entertainment or a meal. In general, a person may date many different partners during the same time period in order to have the best chance of finding their most suitable available mate.
Contents [hide]
1 Types of dates
2 Systems for organizing dates
3 Teenage dating
4 Dating problems and misunderstandings
5 Biblical courtship
6 References
7 External Links
Types of dates
Double date: two couples meet for an activity.
Group date: an activity shared by two or more couples.
Blind date: a date where the participants have not met each other personally before (although may have seen each other's pictures); usually set up by a third party or an internet dating service.
Long Distance / Holidating: Due to a long distance relationship, dating only when one, or both parties are on holiday or vacation and are together during that time period.
Systems for organizing dates
Online dating: Instead of using a traditional matchmaker, online dating uses specifically targeted websites to meet new people.
Speed dating: Where a group of people get together for several hours in a public place to get to know one another better. At one of these speed dating events, each person usually sits with another single member for a set period of time to get to know them better, and then at the predetermined time is asked to move and sit with someone else to repeat the process.
Mobile dating/cell phone dating: Where text messages to and from a mobile/cell phone carrier are used to show interest in others on the system. Can be web-based or online dating as well depending on the company.
Virtual dating: A combination of video game playing and dating, where users create avatars and spend time in virtual worlds in an attempt to meet other avatars with the purpose of meeting for potential dates.
Teenage dating
Although some teens start dating earlier than others, it is normal for teens to be interested in dating at an early stage of their life. Most teenagers do not know how to date and this early stage dating cycle is their opportunity to learn. In many cases, parents talk and prepare their children about dating. Although teens need privacy, it is important to let them know that they should feel comfortable to seek parental advice.
Dating problems and misunderstandings
When individuals use the framework of dating for purposes other than assessing their date's suitability for them, misunderstandings can arise. One or both partners may initiate or accept dating invitations due to peer pressure, attention, a desire to escape from a social environment which they find stifling, a desire for acceptance, or a desire to humiliate; these motives can be strong enough to cause the person to deceive themselves and others when challenged, claiming and believing that they are mainly acting in good faith. This can lead to being "stood up".
Biblical courtship
Main article: Biblical courtship
Biblical courtship is a system practiced by a minority of Christian families, mainly in the USA, where dates are chaperoned and the dating relationship is exclusive and may be vetoed by either of the courting parties or by any of their parents. Once the male declares his feelings to the father and an approval is reached, the male and the female can begin the process of getting to know each other on their chaperoned dates. The purpose of the system is encourage lasting marriages. Despite its name, there are varying opinions as to the degree that this practice either reflects biblical practices or complies with biblical doctrines, or even the extent to which it constitutes "courtship".
References
Glencoe/McGraw-Hill. (2000). Whitney, DeBruyne, Sizer-Webb, Health: Making Life Choices (pp. 499-500)
Capstone Press. (2000). Havelin, Kate., Dating: What Is a Healthy Relationship?
Friday, October 19, 2007
Subject - Chating
Online chat can refer to any kind of communication over Internet, but is primarily meant to refer to direct one-on-one chat or text-based group chat (formally also known as synchronous conferencing), using tools such as instant messaging applications—computer programs, Internet Relay Chat, talkers and possibly MUDs, MUCKs, MUSHes and MOOes.
While many of the Internet's well-known services offer online chat and messaging services for free, an increasing number of providers are beginning to show strong revenue streams from for-pay services. Again it is the adult service providers, profiting from the advent of reliable and high-speed broadband, (notably across Eastern Europe) who are at the forefront of the for-pay online chat revolution.
For every business traveller engaging in a video call or conference call rather than braving the check-in queue, there are countless web users replacing traditional conversational means with online chat and messaging. Like email, which has reduced the need for and usage of letters, faxes, and memos, online chat is steadily replacing telephony as the means of office and home communication. The early adopters in these areas are undoubtedly teenage users of instant messaging. It might not be long before SMS text messaging usage declines as mobile handsets provide the technology for online chat.
General terms
Chat room
Web chat site
Voice chat
VoIP Voice over IP
Live support software
Online discussion
Online discourse environment
Chatgroups
Protocols/Programs
Talker
Internet Relay Chat
Instant messenger
PalTalk
Galeax
Talk (Unix)
Meetro
MUD
MUSH
MOO
Mimichat
Google Talk
Yahoo! Messenger
OohYa! Chat
PSYC
Skype
SILC
Windows Live Messenger
Campfire
Teamspeak
Tangler
Chatablanca
RealTimeQuery
Tiscali Chat (Java)
Chat programs supporting multiple protocols
Adium
Pidgin
Meetro
Miranda IM
Trillian
Kopete
IMVU
Online Chatting Sites Supporting Multiple Protocols
FlickIM
RadiusIM
Meebo
Buddystumbler
Online Anonymous Chatting Sites
BobChatter
While many of the Internet's well-known services offer online chat and messaging services for free, an increasing number of providers are beginning to show strong revenue streams from for-pay services. Again it is the adult service providers, profiting from the advent of reliable and high-speed broadband, (notably across Eastern Europe) who are at the forefront of the for-pay online chat revolution.
For every business traveller engaging in a video call or conference call rather than braving the check-in queue, there are countless web users replacing traditional conversational means with online chat and messaging. Like email, which has reduced the need for and usage of letters, faxes, and memos, online chat is steadily replacing telephony as the means of office and home communication. The early adopters in these areas are undoubtedly teenage users of instant messaging. It might not be long before SMS text messaging usage declines as mobile handsets provide the technology for online chat.
General terms
Chat room
Web chat site
Voice chat
VoIP Voice over IP
Live support software
Online discussion
Online discourse environment
Chatgroups
Protocols/Programs
Talker
Internet Relay Chat
Instant messenger
PalTalk
Galeax
Talk (Unix)
Meetro
MUD
MUSH
MOO
Mimichat
Google Talk
Yahoo! Messenger
OohYa! Chat
PSYC
Skype
SILC
Windows Live Messenger
Campfire
Teamspeak
Tangler
Chatablanca
RealTimeQuery
Tiscali Chat (Java)
Chat programs supporting multiple protocols
Adium
Pidgin
Meetro
Miranda IM
Trillian
Kopete
IMVU
Online Chatting Sites Supporting Multiple Protocols
FlickIM
RadiusIM
Meebo
Buddystumbler
Online Anonymous Chatting Sites
BobChatter
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